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9/3/2008 Storm is coming to DC? 今天查邮件看到的,说是Emergency Operations Division of the DC Government发的。 District residents are urged to begin preparing now for the possibility of severe weather this weekend. Early forecasts indicate the possibility that the District will be impacted by Hanna, which is expected to reach the District on Saturday. The storm may bring heavy rains and high winds. Residents are urged to review their family plan to be sure information is current and up-to-date. Among the points to consider are what you would do if you and your family members were separated or if an emergency occurred while your child was at school and your were at work. More information about how to make a plan is available at on line at http://eic.rrc.dc.gov/eic/cwp/view.asp?a=1272&q=567962&cat=2. Residents should also prepare an emergency kit that includes non-perishable food and water (one gallon per person per day) for at least 3 to 5 days. Medical supplies, a flashlight, a battery-powered radio and extra batteries, along with supplies for infants or pets should also be included. For additional information about how to make a kit, visit http://eic.rrc.dc.gov/eic/cwp/view.asp?a=1272&q=568088&cat=3. A battery- or
crank-powered radio will help residents stay informed in the event of
electrical outrages. Information will be available on all major media outlets,
and on DC Cable Channel 13 and 16. Additional information about hurricanes
and protective actions you can take can be viewed at the following site: http://dcema.dc.gov/dcema/frames.asp?doc=/dcema/lib/dcema/pdf/hazards/Factsheet-Hurricanes.pdf 还要准备3-5天的水和粮食,真是太搞笑了,希望不要真的发生。 9/2/2008 New Semester 新学期开始了,似乎我的作息时间会改变很多,晚上可以呆在家真是太舒服了。。。 今天为了学费的事情在两间银行间跑来跑去,光是排队就排了差不多2个小时,也不知道一下子人怎么都出来了,反正到处都是人。也难怪,学期开始了。上了一门经济系的课,感觉有难度,因为要写大paper和做presentation,而且又不是我的主项,但是感觉老师很nice,是个UCLA毕业的mm,看上去还很年轻呢。所以呢,对上好这门课还是有信心的。 今天还有一个值得纪念的事,得到人生第一张ticket,是闯红灯的。虽然不是我的车,不是完全由我主观照成的,但是车还是我开的,所以我把它当成我的ticket。按照我的性格以后应该不会怎么收ticket的,这是件好事,呵呵。 剩下的,就是bless wb早日联系我。 还有,希望权的新学期能够顺利。今天晚上做饭的时候想到大四时你和我聊天说准备考试和出国材料的惨状。呵呵,都熬过来了。 8/29/2008 For myself 看看日历,今天是8月28号,明天是8月29号。一个是我第一个对别人说我喜欢他的人的生日,一个是第一个对我说他喜欢我的人的生日,而现在竟然都音讯全无。有时回想起青春年少的那种懵懂和纯真,不知道会不会像书上说的一样,随着年纪的增长,一去不复返了呢?昨天和一群88,89年的小朋友在一起吃饭,一边看他们叽叽喳喳,一边感叹自己真是老了。。。 前天和妈妈聊天,发现在家乡的同学朋友都发生了很大的变化,不由得感叹这个世界变得真快。和Dylan同学混多了,也了解了一些美国孩子的感情成长史。有时想想,要是在美国长大,我肯定会和那个说喜欢我的人谈恋爱,也许也会和A,B,C。。。约会。我没有发花痴,我是认真的。每次和Dylan谈到这个问题,我都会想我的孩子以后会怎样?我会怎样在感情问题上教育他们?也许这个问题真的想得有点远了。。。每次想到假如的问题,我就会想到“蝴蝶效应”这部电影。在人生的道路上,每走一步,都会像蝴蝶振动翅膀对台风的影响一样,对以后的人生产生重大的影响。谨慎的走每一步,也大胆的走每一步,只是不要再回头,我们能改变的不是过去,而是将来。我不知道我为什么会想到这样的话,权当鼓励自己好了。 8/23/2008 First drive in U.S. First time driving at the U.S. I got my LP yesterday (met some problems during the process but the pic came out nice....) and try to drive today. Although there's long time I haven't driven, I still felt good. People here are much nicer than ZJ, so I didn't feel much nervours. Thanks my mum let her friends taught me driving, also thanks hh let me drive his car. Hope i can own my car some day. It should feel pretty cool if I can have an SUV, haha, dreaming....Maybe mini is better for me.... P.S. Happy birthday to my dear OO. 8/19/2008 zz 71个做饭技巧谁让我是我老爸的女儿呢?这个要收藏。。。 1、煮水饺时,在水里放一颗大葱或在水开后加点盐,再放饺子,饺子味道鲜美不粘连;在和面时,每500克面粉加拌一个鸡蛋,饺子皮挺刮不粘连 8/14/2008 TV Life with TV is great! Especially at the Olympic time. 昨天virginie让我去她家玩。我们吃了越南菜,听一个从pentagon退休的老头吹牛,还看了一晚上的奥运会(虽然NBC掺插了很多广告),最后实在是困的不行才睡觉。有电视的日子真是幸福。我怎么会有这样的想法?在以前是想都不敢想的。原本以为过了5年没电视的日子后,我会习惯没有电视。可实际上,昨天我一晚上都盯着电视机,直到眼皮打架。 其实看NBC的奥运有点不爽,他们总是转美国队的比赛,很多有中国队员的比赛都不播。还好昨天中国队拿了个游泳金牌,真是让人又惊又喜。想想自己手舞足蹈的样子,virginie昨晚会不会笑我?说到金牌,照现在的情况发展下去,这届中国队的金牌肯定是创纪录的。不能到现场,对于我这个奥运迷来说真是可惜啊。 8/10/2008 one year anniversary屁颠屁颠的来美国一年了,该好好想想以后干什么了。。。。 昨晚看奥运开幕式看的我心潮澎湃,真是太激动了。这两天比赛进行的如火如荼,可我还要上班,唉。鱼和熊掌不可兼得啊。 8/7/2008 My poor stomach 周三晚上去D同学家吃饭为他践行,其实我们俩自己做。这个家伙竟然不会煮饭,水放少了,把饭蒸得硬邦邦的。导致我吃完饭就一直胃疼。原本以为是吃撑了,没想到周四早上起床后还是疼。后来hj给了我一些药,吃了之后有点用,可惜效果不大,胃还是一直疼,吃完东西就更疼。隐隐作痛那种,以前从没有过,难受死了。好惨。。。 8/6/2008 bless the new couple and their babies 晓雪结婚了,真没想到会是这样。 http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_476be76f0100ai0y.html 8/4/2008 first trip to west coast 第一次去西部,改了n次的行程,最后只去了SF和LV。LA和SD就等以后有机会再去了。 感受一,西海岸感觉真的比东海岸要干爽。SF很冷,LV很热,SJ倒是气候宜人。平阿姨一家人都非常好客,有一种回家的感觉。见到了齐叔叔传说中的小儿子,好可爱,心地也非常非常的好。可惜没见到他漂亮的女儿,希望以后有机会吧。 感受二,加州的华人好多。从飞机场到各种服务业,连在麦当劳打工的小孩子,到处都能见到华裔。在DC我从来都没见到过。吃中餐,去中国超市都好方便,很适合华人居住啊。早知道当时就像江凌一样,只报加州的学校好了。 感受三,除了三藩市中心,san jose地区的房子都好低,我想是因为地震的缘故吧。 感受四,油好贵,在三藩看到4.39的,回DC只有3.79。房子也好贵,不是一般的贵。不过中国超市里的水果蔬菜啥的倒是比DC便宜。 回来还是有点时差,虽然只有3个小时的差异。有空再写游记了,大家去我的相册看照片吧。 7/24/2008 Crazy guys 最近认识两个疯狂的男人。 一个是大学同学玲的中学同学,两人现在在一个大学念研究生。一个是在mitbbs上偶遇的工作男。 两个男人都很勇敢,一个我只见过一面,连他的名字都不知道。不知道他从哪里打听到我的邮件,请我在玲生日前发email祝她生日快乐。另一个在mitbbs发帖寻找认识他心仪女孩的人,因为他无法跟她联系。 晚上又收到追玲的那个男生的邮件,说虽然玲还是不肯接受他,但他很谢谢我。另外一个男人也刚告诉我这周他要来见心仪的人。。。 突然很感叹,怎么会有如此痴情的人,可我怎么一个都没碰上。。。 7/22/2008 some funning sentences 偶然看到的,很搞笑,转一下: 1.钱不是问题,问题是没钱! 2.喝醉了我谁也不服,我就扶墙! 3.我就像一只趴在玻璃上的苍蝇,前途一片光明,但又找不到出路. 4.大师兄,你知道吗?二师兄的肉现在比师傅的都贵了 5.如果多吃鱼可以补脑让人变聪明的话,那么你至少得吃一对儿鲸鱼…… 6.水至清则无鱼,人至贱则无敌。 7.青春就像卫生纸,看着挺多得,用着用着就不够了~ 8.怀才就像怀孕,时间久了才能让人看出来。 9.我身边的朋友们啊,你们快点出名吧,这样我的回忆录就可以畅销了~~~ 10.同事去见客户,可能是紧张,一开口便是:“刘先生你好,请问你贵姓啊?”汗啊~~~~~~ 11.一女同学黑了些,她男友又太白了些,有天宿舍里得毒舌天后突然对她冒出一句:“你们这样不行,你们会生出斑马来的” 12.老娘一向视帅哥与金钱如粪土,而他们也一直是这样看我的 13.不要和我比懒,我懒得和你比 14.我不是个随便的人 我随便起来不是人 15.上帝说,要有光,我说我反对,从此世界上有了黑暗 16.今天心情不好.我只有四句话想说.包括这句和前面的两句.我的话说完了...... 17.做人就要做一个徘徊在牛A和牛C之间的人 18.我的大名叫上帝,小名叫耶稣,英文名God, 法号是如来... 19.人不能在一棵树上吊死,要在附近几棵树上多死几次试试 20.树不要皮,必死无疑;人不要脸,天下无敌。 21.农夫三拳有点疼 22.其实我一直很受人欢迎的:小时候的我人见人爱,如今的我人贱人爱 23.不怕虎一样的敌人,就怕猪一样的队友 24.走自己的路,让别人打车去吧 25.老鼠扛刀,满街找猫 26.只要功夫深,拉屎也认真 27.中国人谁跑的最快?是曹操(非刘翔)。因为说曹操曹操到 28.思想有多远,你就给我滚多远 29.只有在火车站大排长龙时,才能真正意识到自己是“龙的传人”。 30.有情人终成家属 31.春天来了,一群大雁正向北飞,一会儿排成B字型,一会儿排成T字型.. 32.在哪里跌倒 就在哪里躺下 33.老虎不发威 你当我是HELLO KITTY! 34.驴是的念来过倒~ 7/21/2008 not always happy其实每天都会有一点点不开心,恩,再加一点点,也许再加一点点。我也不知道不开心的程度有多深。
但每天都会找各种理由让自己开心。当然开心总是比不开心多,但总有那么一点点不开心的地方,每天都在提醒我。
开始想家了,想爸爸做的好吃的,想楼下的早餐店,想花圈的批发市场,甚至有时候想带有湛江口音的广东话。。。。 7/14/2008 Painful but happy上个周六和ITIP(就是我的专业的缩写)的人一起去爬山。这次活动是我们项目主任组织的,一共去了15个人。我们的目的地是位于美国国家公园shenandoah的一座山old rag。原本我想着只是普通的一次远足+野餐,没想到old rag是一座十分有挑战的山。
我们早上7点45就在GWU的地铁站集合,4辆车拉了15个人,浩浩荡荡的开往old rag。可能是早上起的太早,我在去的路上一直都觉得有点困。和我一起的司机已经从ITIP毕业了,是我另外一个同学的同事Starsh,他话不多,很专注开车。不过后来才发现他的过人之处,这个等会说。大概上午10点钟开始爬,刚开始的路还好,虽然没有人工做的石阶,但是角度都不大,形状也比较规则,大家有说有笑,也就慢慢走了上来。在这段规则的路上,只有项目主任Steve和我的同学Ann爬过,我还记得Steve在我貌似很累的时候和我说:This is the hardest past (这是最难爬的一段). 结果呢,爬完我才发现这段是最简单的。当然,Steve的话还是很鼓励我的。
过了平坦的一段,我们开始爬大石头。真的是大石头,有的比我个子还高。我永远记得有两个地方我怎么也爬不上去,结果前面有一个人拽,后面还得有一个人推,才过去。对染有点丢人,但是集体合作看来还是很重要的。还有一些形状很奇怪的地方,就要用一些特殊的技巧,常规的动作不好使。Kyle是我们项目的小秘,其实却是一个个子很高长得也很壮的男生。他当过学校校报上Levis的模特,还是GWU足球队队,反正就是牛。他教了我怎么过那些又窄又长形状又不规则的石头,真是很感激。
大概12点左右的时候,大家到了一个比较平坦的地方,Steve说我们可以吃午饭了,然后我就很高兴,把昨天在家做的寿司拿出来吃,还以为已经到山顶了。谁知后来才得知我们仍然在半山腰,没办法,好好补充能量,再接再厉吧。由于寿司很重,我很希望把他们吃完,结果就到处发,还好大家都很捧场,最后真的把两盒子的寿司吃完了,让我美滋滋的。
休息了大概半个小时,我们又继续爬,有大石头,也有平坦的路,也不知道什么时候,突然就爬到顶了。爬上去才觉得,前面的苦啊累啊真是很值得。从山顶上往下面看,感觉真的很好。有种回到华山的感觉。。。。后来还发现有几个绳子拴在山顶一旁的大石头上,原来是有人在攀岩。反正美国人就是比较疯狂,什么都有人干,而且很多还是业余的。。。。再讲讲Starsh,真是神人一个,大家都是满身大汗,气喘吁吁,满脸通红。而他好像都没出汗,看上去很轻松,坐在山顶的一个小角上,让我感觉像个猴子,又让我感觉风一吹他就要掉下去了。。。。反正后来我就一直把他当神拜了,牛人啊!
我们选了一条平坦的下山路,但是由于之前的疲惫和时间的持续,大家感觉越来越累。新生Vince不停的和我说“要是我能坐下来我会高兴死”,我说我也是。。。然后就是一顿狂聊,Rhee竟然放弃哥大的MBA来GWU读MBA和ITIP的双硕士,其实有点不解,哥大啊。恩,美国人比较有个性。。。
啰哩罗嗦了半天,流水帐记完了。说说后来吧。周日早上起来,发现身上的肌肉有异样,站起来走走,那个疼啊,全身都疼,真是疼死我了。周一继续疼,还有加深的趋势。按理来说我平时也不时的有锻炼,不应该这样啊。可能真像hh说的那样,我上山的呼吸方式不对,导致肌肉产生了大量的乳酸。恩,爬山也是一门学问啊。以后有机会,还要继续锻炼。这次去爬山,也增进了大家对ITIP的感情,真的很开心,能在这样一个组织里学习和生活。放了几张相片在相册,大家有空去瞧瞧吧,呵呵。 7/7/2008 Plan or not?现在回头看看我宏伟的6月计划,一个都没完成。。。不知道说什么好,很郁闷。
我总认为过日子要有计划,以前上大学的时候有个很神奇的记事本。因为那时很忙,每天都会把要做到事情列出来,做事情也算是井井有条。后来总觉得我的包包太重,就把记事本丢掉了。
现在的生活说不清楚是不是比以前忙,但是缺少了记事本的生活,似乎过得真不那么好。我本来就是个丢三落四的人,再加上有时的忙碌,很多事情就无端端的被耽搁了。计划依然有很多,可惜现在执行起来却不如以前那么好了。根本原因就是很多计划,过一阵子就忘掉了。
的确很忙,但是总有解决的办法。失败的6月,也许是个好的教训。
当然,也许是我太执着,记得某人说,谋事在人,成事在天。如果自己真的做到了,结果还不如人意的话,也许我应该选择放弃。
问题是,我的确还没尽力。。。 7/2/2008 Something useful for GWU new comers亲爱的同学们,
很高兴你们能来GWU。我十分能体会到大家兴奋而又焦急的心情。我去年来到时候,多亏了Georgetown的同学还有我唯一认识在DC的huangjiang哥哥,才十分顺利的从机场到临时的住处,而后找到现在的住的地方。我还很幸运的认识了hh,开车带我去了很多地方。在美国,很多时候没车是很不方面的。我刚开始来的时候,听不懂英语,由于没理解银行的经理的介绍,光银行帐户的问题罚款就罚了我3次。我去超市也听不懂收银员说话,去快餐店听不懂to here or to go。甚至现在去咖啡店,有时候也不知道收银员跟我说什么。。。。我至今都记得我刚加入cssa email list时把costco当成手机的运营商,还想和人家"share plan"。所以说,其实我也是一路摸爬滚打走过来的。
我写这封信的原因,是希望你们知道,每个过来人都能体会到你们的感受。但是我要告诉你们,现在是发挥你们自主能力的时候了。关于到美后的大部分问题,GWU的CSSA给出了很好的说明书,请大家一定要好好看。据我所知GWU的CSSA应该是不负责接新生的。你们可以通过在CSSA的email list上发信问,或者最方面的是租机场提供的shuttle。怎么加入email list,麻烦看一下这个网页。http://www.gwu.edu/~cssa/newcomers/letter.htm 还有,大家要记住,你在email list发的每封信,有300多个人能看到,所以不要发无聊的和容量大的信,否则你会突然变得很出名。
如果无法打开这个链接,我以前的做法是用代理。或者,看我转贴 的这部分GWU CSSA创作的这个新生指南。希望你们一切顺利!
Jessie (在办公室偷偷给你们写的)。。。
1. How much should I pay for the airport pick-up fee if someone offers me the help? The parking fee will still be paid by the new comers, and CSSA will pay volunteers $5/trip (Reagan) or $10/trip (IAD) for the gas fee. Generally, we don't provide the pick-up service for Baltimore/Washington International Airport (BWI), which is too far from the DC. To those who want to donate some money for new comers in helping temporary housing and picking up, please refer your email to cssa@gwu.edu or current president. 2. How to get to GWU without pick-up help? Call cabs in front of the airport. Remember to put the school address and some cash in your pocket. Other ways out: 3. How to find temporary housing? There are two solutions here: The second way you could go is to get help from CSSA. Before arriving in D.C., send a requesting mail to cssa@gwu.edu, which indicates the date you arrives, your personal profile (Male/Female, Age, and a photo in order for the convenience of the pick-up), and the price you can afford for the temporary housing. Here is another list of a few suggestions of reasonably priced, convenient accommodations. You can also check the Internet for additional hotels or contact a travel agent. Carlyle Suites Davis House International Student Housing International Guest House Kalorama Guest House (Woodley Park) Kalorama Guest House (Adams Morgan) River Place Apartments Roommates Preferred, Ltd Simpkins Bed and Breakfast Thompson-Markward Hall 4. How much should I pay for the temporary housing? If you get help from the Community Living and Learning Center or you are going to live in hotel, they will show you the price. You may be able to get a student rate or travelers aid discount at some hotels if rooms are available. Ask if such discounts apply when you call for a reservation. Do it as early as possible. 5. Housing around GWU: There are some popular apartments where many Chinese students choose to live. Departments on campus: On campus. Not easy to get. Very convenient. Living condition is not quite good. River House (3 buildings): Pentagon City, 5-min walk to the Pentagon City metro station. Rent is a little higher. Living environment is quite good. Convenient, quiet and clean. Free park, swimming pool and gym. Crystal House (2 buildings): Crystal City, 5-min walk to the Crystal City metro station. Rent is a little higher. Living environment is good. Convenient, quiet and clean. Free park, swimming pool, and gym. Court House: Rent is a little cheaper. Living condition is normal. You may also get useful information from: After choosing your dream room, please put your emphasis on the lease. You should read carefully the contents of the lease. Pay attention to the rent period, utilities fees, furniture fees and deposits. The more details you know about the lease, the less inconveniences you will meet in the future. 6. Health Insurance Issues: There are several options: 2): The Mid-West National Life Insurance Company of Tennessee (recommended by Chinese Embassy) 3): You can also ask other Chinese students about their specific suggestions. Option 1 is more expensive than option 2, while option 1 has more coverage. 7. What are the important things to do during the first week of stay in USA? 1): Check in at ISO, which is located in ISO, 2029 K Street, NW. Bring your valid passport, I-94, I-20 or IAP-66 2): Apply for Social Security Number (like Chinese Shenfenzheng). Before applying for SSN, you must get a letter from ISO. SSN office is located at: 2100 M Street, NW 3): Deposit your money; do not take too much cash with you. There are NIH bank (1919 Penn Avenue, NW), Bank of America (2001 Penn Avenue, NW), Riggs Bank (1919 Penn Avenue, NW), Citibank (1775 Penn Avenue, NW) etc. 4): Finding an ideal apartment, you can contact other Chinese students and see whether you can share the apartment for a couple of weeks if you can not find yourselves so that you can avoid expensive guesthouse or hotel expenses. 8. How Can I buy cheap or used textbooks? A: Almost every Chinese student will be amazed at the high price of new textbooks in US. Usually we will try to find the used books in the following ways before buying the new ones: - SEARCH ON-LINE You can get the books' title, author or ISBN from your advisor or professor first, in which ISBN is the best one because every book has its unique ISBN number while the version of the book update every year. Using this information, you can search the books in many web sites such as amazon.com, half.com and etc. The price of the books selling there are reasonable and some of used books are almost totally new. You can even sale your own used books there. -BUY IN GW BOOKSTORE In the beginning of every semester; GW Bookstore will have a batch of used books to sale, which were collected from the old students. These used books usually have 25% discount. Some books only have a few and you need to check early and frequently. These books are also usually in good conditions. -ASK FOR OLD STUDENTS There will be many selling information of textbooks posted on GW CSSA web site, bulletin boards in Gelman library, Academic Center and anywhere else on Campus. You can also send emails to ask for some book on CSSAPOST. In this way, you often only need to pay 50% to 60% of the original price. -COPYING If you really want to save money or have financial problem, the cheapest way is to copy the textbooks. You can borrow from other, or buy from the bookstore first and then return them in the permitted periodic, which is 14 days in the beginning of every semester and 3 days during the semester. The copying center in Gelman Library, basement of Marvin Center are all available. The cheapest store for copying is Office Depot, the closest one to our campus is at 2000 K street, NW. 9. How can I apply for credit card? A: If you want to stay in US, credit history is one of the most important records in your life. You'd better to get a credit card as soon as possible. After getting your SSN (social security number), you can start to apply for it. There are many credit card companies, but they can be classified into four categories: VISA, MASTERCARD, AMERICAN EXPRESS and DISCOVER. Everyone has its advantage and popularity, so you can apply anyone to start your credit history. The problem is that you have no credit history in US before and it is very difficult for you to be accepted for the first card. The following methods are recommended to fix this problem: -Apply for a debit card while you open an account in your bank, it usually need deposit for your card and is not the real credit card, but it can help you to build your credit history and you will be easily accepted by other credit card companies after certain period. Bank of American, NIH and some other big bank all have this service. -Try to apply as many companies as you can on-line, perhaps some one will be accepted. There are some successful examples for the student card of American Express, you can check it on Americanexpress.com. While you are apply for, you should pay attention whether it has annual fee, we usually try to avoid to pay any charge of that. - The best way is applying in the promotion activities given by the credit companies on campus, you only need to fill in some forms and then you will get some fairly good souvenirs, such as T-shirt, portable radio or camera, etc. The successful rate in this way is very high. Once you own your first credit card, it will be very easy for you to get as many card as you want, you will be submerged in the letters inviting you to apply for their cards soon. Almost everyone is no annul fee, low APR and high credit line. But do remember not to take too many cards, which will decrease your credit history. 10. Which bank should I save my money? Upon arrival in the United States, you should open a bank account as soon as possible. We recommend local banks branch with international department. Those around GWU include: Bank of America Chevy Chase Bank Citibank First Union National Bank NIH/GW Federal Credit Union (GW branch) Riggs Bank, NA 11. How can I subscribe to the CSSA Email List? As a Chinese student at GWU, you are welcome to the CSSA Email list. Please click here to learn how to subscribe and unsubscribe. Please keep in mind that CSSA is a volunteer organization. Its main function is to serve as an information sharing channel. Its officers and members work for CSSA in their spare time as volunteers. CSSA will not be able to take care of everything for everyone. You will be much better prepared if you understand that you should rely on yourself to start your American journey. We wish you a success in getting your visa, and a wonderful trip to the USA! Chinese Student & Scholar Association at GWU 6/30/2008 Q&ADerek同学今天跑来和我说:“似乎你最近没怎么被点名,那我点你好了。” 我打开space,结果发现中招了。。。以下是题目和答案。
1.近期常说的一句话是?
Thank you 2.你觉得男女之间有纯洁的友谊吗?
有 3.你的首要的择偶条件是什么?
感觉 4.你相信真心付出了,就能得到别人的真心回报吗?
应该能 5.你最想珍惜的东西是什么?
时间 6.哪种人最令你反感?
自私,小气 7.2008年最大的心愿是什么?
考试拿A,找到工作 8.这个世界上你最想珍惜的人你遇到了吗?
老爸老妈当然已经遇到了 9.如果时间能倒流,你想回到什么时候?
2005年11月17日 10.最想得到什么礼物?
红色大衣 11.最想拥有的幸福是什么?
做自己想做的事 12.你认为你懂得去爱吗?
应该懂
13.相信星座吗?
相信一部分 14.你很在乎的人最后什么都不在乎你,你会怎么办?
应该不会这样吧 15.你相信明天会更好吗?
Yes 16.你能想到的最浪漫的事?
夕阳西下的时候在有野鸭的湖边散步 17.你不开心的时候会做什么?
打电话给妈妈 18.目前最大的遗憾是什么?
高考没考好。。。 19.你认为生活的意义是什么? 让自己和大家都开心20.你小时候最理想的职业是什么?
游戏规则:
1.点到的名字的人要复制出所有问题,然后在自己的空间里写下自己的答案,并写出是在哪里接到题的。 2.去掉一个你最不喜欢的问题再加上一个你的问题,仍然组成20个问题。 3.列出8个需要回答问题的人的名字,到这8个人的空间里留言通知对方——你被点名了,被点名者不得拒绝回答问题。 完成游戏的人将会得到大家的祝福。这8个人要在自己的空间里注明是从哪里接到的,并且传给其他8个人,让游戏继续下去,不得回传。被点到明的人将会得到大家的祝福,并且所有美好的愿望都会在不久的将来实现。 破例点几个人吧,别怪我,有时间再做。qingzhuo, oo, 胡子, hh, hedy, Allan, Vivien, dst 6/26/2008 relationshipDylan同学真是个大好人,请我吃饭,帮我拿包,还送我回家,上哪找这么好的同学啊,唉,唉。昨天我们聊到relationship这个问题,竟然从学校走回union station,聊了一路。最近也在看sex and city,原来不怎么喜欢看的东西,现在爱不释手。虽然sex and city真的很开放,但是每个女生都能在里面找到自己的影子。又偏题了。。。。继续说,美国人真是很不一样,他们从很小(Dylan说他是14岁)就开始约会,然后有男女朋友。Dylan说他不断的和不同的人date,有很漂亮没大脑的,有丑但很聪明的,有高的,有身材好的,反正什么人都有。他说因为这样可以了解不同的人然后发现自己到底喜欢什么样的人。我到觉得这种说法有对有不对,的确应该清楚自己喜欢什么样的人,问题是,14岁的你和24岁的你甚至34岁的你想法是不一样的。14岁不合适的,可能24岁会合适。24岁合适的,可能34岁就不合适了。。。Dylan也说,他觉得他在relationship这个career呆了8年后,还是不怎么成功。所以说,我还是觉得date那么多次其实没啥用。。。可能美国人更喜欢找乐子吧。当然,这些恋爱经验丰富的美国人,起码是知道一些和异性相处常识的,呵呵。
话又说回来,找到合适的人,真的很重要。似乎很多30岁以上的人,一般都不怎么会看重外表,性格,性格很重要。性格决定职业,决定生活(我不否认luck,但性格还是很重要)。我亲爱的朋友们,有时大家真应该学学美国人,多参加party,我是指像生日party这种的。多认识人,还有学美国人的热情+大胆,多认识人,多认识人,这个世界上的人那么多,不去认识怎么知道合适不合适。
最后举个例子,不好意思,baiyu。俺师姐,认识bf在一个party上,一年后结婚啦,呵呵。应该说是她老公了,恭喜,恭喜啊。 6/23/2008 Final exam on Wednesday虽然还没到24号,已经收到oo和小周的email,读着信,虽然只有那么几行,心里却很温暖。
可惜周三有期末考试,还是只许成功不许失败那种。所以只能事先感谢大家对我的关心,我考完试后一定回复大家。 6/19/2008 busy and boring每天都很忙,周末更忙,可还是很无聊。找不到目标,不知道为什么活着,很没意思。每天都很困,怀疑自己处于亚健康状态,吃很多不健康的东西,尽量抽空去游泳也没有用。其实我很讨厌这样的生活方式,但是却无法控制自己。
日复一日,年复一年,也许这不是我想要的。干脆以后去当外交官,去各种各样的小破国家都逛逛,传播中国的友好外交,也避免老呆在一个地方。或者像我的director,一天到晚全世界的跑,只是不知道能不能有像他一样的成就。
以前喜欢安稳的生活,现在却喜欢漂泊的日子。 6/11/2008 Although i know he speaks for CS major students"If we increase the number of H-1B visas that are available to U.S. companies, employment of U.S. nationals would likely grow as well. For instance, Microsoft has found that for every H-1B hire we make, we add on average four additional employees to support them in various capacities." Bill Gates,
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